Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Love life....

is just something that I don't have, I haven't been on a date in forever now. 
Ok, so people say that I'm a guy and I can just ask a girl out... sure, but that doesn't help if the girls I ask says no, and btw, I have been on dates with pretty much every girl I know, and what's the point of asking them out again when there was clearly no connection!? So, the girls tells me that us guys have it much easier than the girls when it come to the dating scene, cuz we can just ask a girl out and then we have a date, and the girls have it so hard cuz they have to sit around and wait for guys to ask them out, Sure that's true.... NOT!!!! 
I mean it's not easy to be a guy, first we have to take courage to ask the girl out, and if they say yes, wich is not as often as you should think taken in to consideration how many girls complainting about never getting asked out, we have to plan the date. This is not easy, sure we can take them out for dinner and a movie, most girls don't mind that, note that some girls does mind that, so if they don't want to do that, or you have already been on one date with the girl, then we have to be creative. And that is not easy, especially not if you don't have a lot of money. I know I that, most, girls don't expect you to spend a lot of money on your date, but it is really hard to be creative in a cheap way. This is where the girls say: "You can just take me for a walk in the park, or on the beach or you can cook me dinner and we can talk all night, or you can just buy me an ice cream". Yeah sure... I know that's not true, cuz I tried it a couple of times.... and it's obvious that they really don't want that. 
I'm not saying that girls have it easier than guys in the dating world, but just letting you know that it's not easy being a guy either.
Well, so I've pretty much giving up on finding a girlfriend, let alone getting married. And now people are going to tell me what I have heard 1.000.000.000 times before: "You won't find the right girl until you start being the right guy". Sure.... I'm trying that... no luck so far. I guess I just have to be patient. But it is annoying to see that all of my friends an everybody else around me is getting in relationships and getting marreid. 
Well, I guess I will ask somebody out on a date soon and then stop whining.

7 comments:

JM said...

Troels, you won't find the right girl until you start being the right guy. hahaha. Just kidding. I think you are an awesome guy. Danish girls are crazy. And incidentally, I love dates that are just things like walking in the park or on the beach and eating ice cream (or pizza) and feeding the ducks or something. That is the best kind. So basically, what I'm trying to tell you is not ALL girls are lame. :)

Anne said...

Troels, er JM stadig i Dk ?
Hvis ja, saa date hende noget mere.
Hvis du er 100% sikker paa det ikke skal vaere jer to, saa kom her over. Her over er der piger du ikke har dated endnu.

Catherine said...

Troels, I am sorry... you must just not be the right kind of guy. (j/k) I think that you just have to find the right kinda girl... some of us actually don't really mind doing that "cheap stuff" I agree with JM that Danish girls must be lame... Hope you get some hope back

joanna said...

you should do what your friends have done and come to the states to find an all-American girl:-) You won't be disappointed. hehe.

P.S. I rather enjoy reading your blog:-) I've talked with you more through facebook and blogging than I have in real life. But just wait until I come to Denmark!

Anonymous said...

Must...resist..calling...you..an...EMO!

Annika said...

I'm with you all the way: "But it is annoying to see that all of my friends an everybody else around me is getting in relationships and getting marreid."

Alicia said...

Oh, Troels, how I love your honesty (and yes, i am now stalking you ;]).
but I do have to comment on one, well maybe two (eh, three?), remarks:
First - "I have been on dates with pretty much every girl I know..."
fallacy - Although this was about two years ago, and we didn't know each other then, you never have been on a date with me! ;]
Secondly - '"You can just take me for a walk in the park, or on the beach or you can cook me dinner and we can talk all night, or you can just buy me an ice cream."'
I would totally say that, and mean it. Who needs a movie anyways, the point is to get to know the other person, not some hot-shot celebrities.
Lastly - '"You won't find the right girl until you start being the right guy."'
Story of my life, well the other way around! Join the party, at least you know you have good company, well you can see how humble I am. ;]